There seem to be certain drinks that as a guy you should just not order at a bar - because if you do... no woman will ever sleep with you again (well unless she likes girly men *with Arnooolldd accent*). I found a link via fark with a list of all those forbidden drinks. Check them out and let us know if they are missing any or some of them are just bogus.

Here's the list (although the link above has some nice pictures):

1. Anything blended, unless your on a beach.
2. Jello shots or any variety of neon shots with about as much alcohol as a juice box.
3. Anything with an obscene amount of garnish.
4. Cosmopolitans are fruity, bright and downright girly.
5. Anything that requires a straw. It's hard to look coy with a straw, it's nearly impossible to look macho or hot when using one.
6. Any shot or drink that boasts whipped cream as an ingredient of garnish.
7. Anything that ends with "tini" but isn't an honest martini made of gin or vodka and vermouth.
8. Malt beverages tat don't come in a 40 oz. bottle. Especially the fruity flavored malt beverages a.k.a. "alcopops."
9. Any kind of alcohol, besides scotch, ordered "neat." It could suggest that you're a frequent drinker.
10. White Zinfandel -- this one needs no explanation.

So... lets find out what you think! Here's a question for the women and a question for the men. No cheating! Only answer your own sex. If you're a transvestite or transgendered... well I guess you can figure out which one you should answer on your own.

This week's feature is an interactive video (a file I can't embed). What a Difference a Friend Makes, from the anti-stigma mental health web site of the same name by SAMHSA. From the transcript:

Angela: I think this is the hardest thing I ever had to deal with.

James: Do you want to talk about it? You don't have to go through this alone.

Angela: These past couple of months have been super hard. You know, sometimes I don't feel like myself. Like I'll never have a normal life again.

Sarah: Wow, Angela - that does seem really hard.

James: Yea, that does sound pretty rough.

Caption: What would you do? Change the subject or encourage her to tell you more?

If you select "change the subject" it tells you why she needs to talk and continues the conversation.

Also on the site, a 30 second PSA from the campaign that can be embedded (and linked). Share it with your friends.

Another below the fold: